Every time I bottom, it hurts. I was told after a couple of times I would get used to it but I never have. Sex just isn't enjoyable for me no matter the position. Are some people not meant to be bottoms, or even tops?
When it comes to putting stuff in your butt, it's really important to use lube. That’s easy enough to say, but how do you know what sort of lube to use when there are so many different kinds out there?