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Group sex can be both incredibly hot and rewarding but also intimidating and nerve-wracking, even if you’ve done it before. Will you know who’ll be there? What if you’re not into someone? How does it start? And what if your ex is there...?

Our ‘tell me’ tool generates the perfect message. Everyone struggles with finding the right words sometimes but it’s worth it for their health and the health of anyone else they’ve slept with.

Maybe bookmark it for later? You never know.

Syphilis is officially crashing the party, particularly in Auckland and Waikato where we're seeing the majority of new cases (though we're seeing it in other areas as well).⁠ It can be symptomless, and get pretty nasty if left untreated. If you're having sex with men, the best way to know for sure is to get a blood test via your doctor or GP.