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Condoms and lube are an effective way to protect yourself from acquiring HIV and many other STIs, like syphilis and gonorrhoea. Usually made of thin latex, condoms provide a physical barrier that viruses and bacteria can't pass through.
When used consistently and correctly, condoms are extremely reliable. Make sure you use lots of lube for anal sex – it’s absolutely essential for having a good time!
Sign up for our Condom Subscription Service
Choose from four sizes and get them (discreetly) delivered anywhere in Aotearoa for free! Then we will resend them to you every 1-6 months. The power is in your hands!
P.S. We also offer one-off condom delivery
Not sure what size condom you need? Remember, penises come in all shapes, colours, sizes and with different foreskins too. There is a condom that’s just right for your wonderful and unique body, so stand proud no matter your fit!
We have an awesome resource called the Pūkoro Ure Fit Kit, which contains 7 different condoms, several lube packets and instructions on how to find which condom fits you best!
It’s important you feel confident and comfortable in your condom. To find your perfect fit try different condoms (we have four sizes you can order), you can also order a Pūkoro Ure Fit Kit to play around with a bunch to get a feel for which ones work best for you.
The four condom sizes we offer for free are:
49mm – Moment
53mm – Moments
56mm - Gold Knight Ultra Thin
60mm – Gold Knight
Condoms and lube are available for free in many gay bars and sex-on-site venues, and you can find them all over Aotearoa using our Condom Locator Map. You can also buy condoms and lube at any service station, chemist or supermarket, or order them free online here. They are also available on prescription from a GP or sexual health service.
Lube keeps things nice and smooth while you are having sex and also reduces the risk of condoms breaking. There are three main kinds of lube – water-based, silicon-based and water/silicon-based. Try a few different brands to see what you really like. Don’t use oil-based lube with condoms, as it can break down the latex and cause them break.
Pro-tip: Make sure your lube is already close at hand before you get started and keep it nearby to reapply if things dry up!
When it comes to putting stuff in your butt, it's really important to use lube. That’s easy enough to say, but how do you know what sort of lube to use when there are so many different kinds out there?
Once you get used to putting condoms on it becomes second-nature – but the first few times aren’t always so easy. Here are a few tips:
While you're having sex, remember to check and make sure the condom hasn’t broken and that you have enough lube. You or your partner/s can stop and pull out to check if you aren’t sure.
If a condom breaks, tears or rips, staying calm is always a good first step. If you’re concerned that the condom breaking may have put you at risk of HIV, then you need to get tested, and should consider getting on PEP as soon as you can.
What's the deal with cock piercings and condoms? Is it still safe to have sex with a cock piercing if you use a condom?
That's an interesting question as piercings are quite common these days. The best advice we can give on this is that you or your partner should remove the piercings before having anal sex. This is because there is a chance that the metal might break through the latex of the condom. Some might argue that the jewellery is smooth and won't tear the condom, but we reckon with metal against latex it's not worth the risk. Be aware too that piercings need time to heal after you first get them so sexual activity during the healing period should be avoided.
What type of condom is inside the free condom packs that you provide?
The condoms available in our free condom and lube packs are:
49mm – Moment
53mm – Moments
56mm - Gold Knight Ultra Thin
60mm – Gold Knight
